8 XXX : bdsm

Love this. :) It is discrete and respectful of vanillas (which I am aware no one HAS to be, but in my opinion is good. Much in the same way I would not have a full blown makeout session in the middle of Wal-Mart, nor would I be on an obvious leash in the store), while still expressing the nature of the dynamic. It seems very intimate, less an exhibitionism to unwilling participants and more a private way of serving at all times. Seriously, it's kind of beautiful to me.
You can run the leash from a collar through the sleeve of a coat, as well